Tips to Keep Your Partner Faithful
Tips to Keep Your Partner Faithful
Some relationships are destined to last forever while others are not. Here are a few ways to keep your partner happy and faithful.
Good communication
Keep the lines of communication open. When two people don't communicate with each other the relationship often begins to deteriorate. Your partner can't read your mind. If you don't express your feelings how do you expect your partner to know how you feel? Be honest with your spouse or partner. Yes, the truth can hurt and people often don't want to hear it but if you are unhappy or feel the need to discuss your feelings about a particular matter do so openly and honestly.
Sexual intimacy
Work related routines and family responsibilities can sometimes be overwhelming. They can leave us feeling drained both mentally and physically. People may find themselves exhausted and irritable at the end of the day. Sometime sexual intimacy gets put on the shelf. Couples often grow distant as the fires of romance dwindle. Learn to rekindle the flame. Make time for romance and sexual activity. Surprise your partner. Do something out of the ordinary. A pleasant surprise can be beneficial for both of you. A person who has all of his or her needs met at home are less likely to look elsewhere.
Be a romantic
As mentioned previously romance is important in a relationship. If you're not the romantic type you can always use the old classics like sending flowers and writing poetry. Women can do this for men as well. If you are a romantic then get creative and explore new ways to add a little more romance to your relationship. You don't have to engage in elaborate displays of romanticism to gain your partner's attention. It's the simple acts that mean the most.
Be spontaneous
By adding spontaneity to your relationship you can easily transform dull, rote routines into exciting romantic pleasure. Of course you can't disrupt your work routine or even your home routine when the children are involved by you can grasp moments for the two of you and take advantage of them. A few stolen moments here and there can add new dimensions to a relationship.
Share
Your relationship involves the deepest most intimate forms of sharing. Not only do you share your home, your possessions and your bodies with each other you need to share your heart, mind and soul as well. Some people find it difficult to commit on such deep levels even to someone they truly love. It can be difficult to open up completely. What we need to remember is that when someone truly loves us he or she does so on all levels. They accept us for the person we are even with all of our imperfections. That is love. If you refuse to open yourself to your partner it can leave him or her feeling cut off or shut out from you emotionally. They may feel unloved and begin to doubt your true feelings.A good soul searching might help clear the air and set things right.
Show genuine interest
There are times when your partner may want to talk to you but you are too busy to listen. If such lack of interest occurs often in your relationship it can create a rift of distance. Of course there are moments when you really don't have time to listen but there are other moments when you hide behind the newspaper. Put the paper down and really listen to what your partner is saying.
Enjoy a meal together and discuss your day. Take time in the evening to share your feelings and discuss events of the day. Learn to be a good listener as well. You can't expect your partner to listen to you if you aren't willing to do the same. Your relationship is a partnership. Treating each other with love and respect can go a long way in keeping a relationship strong.
Written by Darlene Zagata
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Posted on Jul 23, 2007 by Site Admin
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