Siren Song / Only A Dream
Siren Song
I'm seeing a girl who has me in the biggest state of confusion. We met through friends and went from zero to 60 in a matter of hours. That was unlike both of us, or at least I'm trusting it's unlike her.
We really hit it off and started dating, seeing each other for the most part of a week or two. We decided to be exclusive, but after a bit of that, she realized my idea of exclusivity didn't include her constant flirting with friends and strangers alike. So we took things down a notch.
I'm extremely into this girl. I've analyzed and analyzed, and this is no "wanting what you can't get" case. I know I need to be her friend above all else. I'm always there for her, even when she won't admit she needs it. I talk things out with her with a true interest in her needs.
When we're in the company of others, I barely exist, let alone come across as anything other than a minor friend. Only when there's a female near does she make her presence felt. Fine, fine, I understand. My issue is we argue because she constantly fails to call me and changes plans on me without warning.
Every time she's back with an apology and a suggestion we spend time alone. This, of course, brings back my interest. I'm trying so damned hard to be understanding, but I can't figure out when enough is enough.
Gavin
Gavin, Odysseus was sailing home at the end of the Trojan War. He knew of the dangerous coast where the Sirens lived, women whose beautiful song lured sailors onto rocks where their ships were wrecked and their lives lost. So to ensure safe passage, Odysseus stuffed wax in the ears of his men and had himself lashed to the mast.
The enchanting song of the Sirens nearly drove Odysseus mad, and he begged his men to free him. But they were under strict orders and only tightened his bonds. In this way, the peril passed and Odysseus went on with his life.
You are under the spell of the first night you coupled with this siren, but all this siren has to offer you is madness. We can't tie you to a mast, but perhaps the myth of Odysseus will be bee's wax for your ears. You are only one of many sailors being dashed on her rocks.
Wayne & Tamara
Only A Dream
As a little girl I dreamed of marrying a professional football player. They invoke a protective quality I missed out on because of my relationship with my father. Last month I believed I was on the way to having my dream come true.
When I went for dinner and drinks with my cousin, we were approached by a security guard who said this football player wanted to meet me. I was excited and quickly obliged the request. That week we spent hours together going to lunch, dinner, a bar, and even a walk in the park.
The night before he left town I spent the night with him. He was a complete gentleman, and I remained a lady at all times so nothing happened. The next day he asked if I would visit him, and I said sure. Later that evening he asked me to meet him at the airport.
I could not because of a family function, but I asked him to let me know if he got home safe. That was the last conversation we had. He has not called, e-mailed, or even sent a text message. Did I take the friendly gestures as meaning too much, or should I accept it for what it's worth?
Stephanie
Stephanie, he behaved like a complete gentleman, but perhaps he wasn't looking for a lady. Remaining a lady allows you to keep this encounter as a pleasant memory.
Wayne & Tamara
Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached at www.WayneAndTamara.com.
Send letters to: Direct Answers, PO Box 964, Springfield, MO 65801 or email: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com.
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Posted on Jul 03, 2006 by Site Admin
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